Are the Holidays a Good Time to File for Divorce?

Navigating the decision to file for divorce is never easy, especially when the holiday season is just around the corner.

If you are going to start the divorce process, you may be wrestling with the question of when you should you start the process, during the holidays or after. The path you choose during this emotional time can significantly impact the well-being of your family.

Opting for a collaborative divorce process, without the adversarial nature of court-litigated divorces, provides a hopeful alternative. In this approach, a team of professionals, including financial experts, mental health specialists, divorce coaches, and lawyers, collaborate to guide you and your partner toward a fair and agreeable divorce agreement.

Considering whether to wait until after the holidays? Surprisingly, there are factors to weigh:

• Sharing one last holiday as a family can hold emotional significance
• Post-holiday schedules often offer more flexibility
• If your relationship is toxic, waiting may worsen emotional turmoil
• Financially, divorcing after the year’s end might have tax advantages
• Waiting provides space for addressing stressors and potential reconciliation

Ultimately, the focus should be on what’s best for your family. Take the time to carefully consider the options, as this decision may lead to a more straightforward path for both parties involved.

Choosing a collaborative divorce over a court-litigated one empowers you to shape the outcome during this challenging chapter. By embracing a process centered on collaboration, understanding, and support, you set the stage for a more amicable resolution, minimizing the emotional toll on everyone involved.

And remember, what was good for one couple, often times may not be right for you. It’s an individual decision that is tough to make for your family unit. If you need help deciding which way to go, reach out to a collaborative divorce professional.

When you utilize the Los Angeles Collaborative Family Law Association  experts, you can rest easier because you will know that when your divorce is finalized, each party involved, including your children, will be ready to face the future confidently.

Call us today if you would like to learn more about how our members at the LACFLA can help you and your family through your divorce and help preserve your family.

Note: This information is general in nature and should not be construed as legal/financial/tax/or medical advice. You should work with your attorney, financial, medical or tax professional to determine what will work best for your situation.