Divorce and Technology: The Role of Social Media in Modern Divorces

Going through a divorce is hard enough without social media making it worse. That angry post you’re thinking about? It could cost you more than you realize. So… STOP and PAUSE before posting, here’s why…

When emotions run high, venting online feels like relief. But here’s what many couples don’t realize until it’s too late – every post, comment, and like can become evidence. That vacation photo with friends might be twisted to suggest you’re hiding money. A night out could be used against you in custody discussions. Even changing your relationship status can create unnecessary conflict. What sparkles isn’t always gold.

Posts about purchases may affect how assets get divided. New relationships posted too soon complicate negotiations. Location check-ins reveal information you’d rather keep private. Screenshots last forever, even if you delete the original post.

The smartest move? Take a social media break until your divorce is final. If you can’t step away completely, follow this rule – When in doubt, don’t post. Think about your children’s friends and family seeing what you share. Social media posting can take on its own life – trust us, we have seen it happen.

Update your privacy settings immediately. Monitor your children’s accounts because they’re watching how you handle this difficult time. Ask family members not to post about your situation either.

Traditional court divorce litigation turns EVERYTHING into usable evidence. Lawyers data mine social media for anything damaging. Make no mistake – posts can be twisted into evidence against you. Collaborative divorce removes that toxic dynamic entirely. You’re focused on cooperation, not combat.

Collaborative divorce gives you the chance to end your marriage with dignity intact. Don’t let impulsive social media posts destroy that possibility. The divorce will end, but those posts last forever, even if they are deleted.

When you utilize the Los Angeles Consensual Dispute Resolution Family Law Association, you can rest easier because you will know that when your divorce is finalized, each party involved, including your children, will be better prepared to face the future with confidence. Contact us today!

Note: This information is general in nature and should not be construed as legal/financial/tax/or mental health advice. You should work with your attorney, financial, mental health or tax professional to determine what will work best for your situation.