Posts Tagged ‘divorce’
Are the Holidays a Good Time to File for Divorce?
Navigating the decision to file for divorce is never easy, especially when the holiday season is just around the corner. If you are going to start the divorce process, you may be wrestling with the question of when you should you start the process, during the holidays or after. The path you choose during this…
Read MoreBuilding a New Life After Divorce
Starting out on the journey of rebuilding your life after your divorce has been finalized can be an emotionally charged and transformative process. Regardless of your individual situation, there are certain key steps you can take to navigate this transition with resilience and grace. Engaging in a collaborative divorce process that involves the expertise of…
Read MoreHow is Alimony Handled in a Collaborative Divorce?
Divorce can present many emotional and financial hurdles, especially when deciding on alimony (spousal support). The collaborative divorce process is an alternative way of ending marriages without court interference – alimony is handled differently. When deciding on alimony payments during the collaborative divorce process, here are some thoughts we often share with our clients to…
Read MoreStrength After Divorce: Moving Forward Strong
Divorce can feel like an ending, but it can also be a chance for a fresh start. If you’re recently divorced or going through the separation process, here’s how you can move forward to find a renewed strength to feel better and empowered: Find yourself and figure out what makes you happy and what your…
Read MoreHow to Keep the Peace During Your Divorce
When a marriage ends and divorce has been set in motion, it’s natural to feel overwhelmed and uncertain about the future. But what if there was a way to divorce that didn’t involve bitter courtroom battles and endless arguments? Enter collaborative divorce – a process that offers couples a more peaceful path to separation. The…
Read MoreA Guide to Building Trust During Divorce
by Dr. James E. Walton, Ph.D. I recently spoke at the CPCal Celebration about ‘Navigating the Turbulent Waters of Divorce.’ During the conference, I focused on the importance of building trust by emphasizing transparency, consistency, follow-through, and validation. These elements are like the legs of a chair – without one, trust becomes shaky, and without…
Read MoreHow to Manage Finances with Your Co-Parent
Often, divorcing couples struggle with how finances and child custody will be divided and all the costs that come along once the divorce is finalized. When married partners use a litigated court divorce, it often becomes a win-lose situation. Couples utilizing the collaborative divorce model are paired with divorce experts committed to a peaceful resolution…
Read MoreWhat is the Mental Health Professional Role in Collaborative Divorce?
By Dr. James E. Walton, Ph.D. When facing the complexities of divorce, emotional support is often overlooked. Collaborative divorce offers a more amicable alternative to the adversarial nature of court-litigated divorces, focusing on cooperation, understanding and emotional wellbeing. In a collaborative divorce, a mental health child life specialist, along with a divorce coach professional, plays…
Read MoreWhat You Should Do Before You File for a Collaborative Divorce
The collaborative divorce process is an amicable alternative to traditional court-litigated divorce, as it provides couples with a more peaceful and amicable way to end their marriage. While working through the collaborative divorce, each spouse needs to be committed to the process and work together towards a peaceful resolution and stay out of court. Our…
Read MoreHow to Make the Holidays a Happy Event After Divorce
Approaching the first holiday post-divorce adds a layer of complexity, making it essential to offer practical suggestions to help our clients have a happy holiday. Here are some suggestions to create happy holiday experiences: Reaching out to help others can be a healing experience from your divorce. It’s “better to give than receive.” It’s very…
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