What Are Some Top Tips When Children Are Involved in a Divorce?

Divorce is a challenging journey, especially when children are involved. At LACFLA, we understand the importance of making this transition as smooth as possible. Here are some invaluable tips to consider when children are part of the divorce equation.

• Prioritize communication by keeping discussions open and honest
• Keep the lines of dialogue respectful and focused on your children’s well-being
• Always prioritize your children’s needs and feelings
• Be respectful of each other
• Maintain respect and avoid negative talk about your co-parent in front of your children
• Spend quality time with your children, focus on them and their needs
• Try to maintain consistency in your children’s lives, especially regarding routines and schedules
• Involve Child life therapists or counselors to support your children during this transition
• Create a detailed co-parenting plan that outlines responsibilities, schedules, and decision-making processes
• Collaborate with legal professionals experienced in family law
• Recognize that children may need time to adjust

Divorcing with children requires careful consideration and open communication. Collaborative divorce offers a more amicable path, emphasizing cooperation and children’s well-being. Following these tips and seeking a collaborative divorce can ensure a smoother transition for your family during this challenging time.

When the collaborative divorce process is utilized, couples are provided with a team of experts who work together with you and your spouse to consider how your divorce will affect their children and work towards an agreeable co-parenting plan for both.

When you utilize the Los Angeles Collaborative Family Law Association experts, you can rest easier because you will know that when your divorce is finalized, each party involved, including your children, will be ready to face the future confidently.

Call us today if you would like to learn more about how our members at the Los Angeles Collaborative Family Law Association can help you and your spouse learn how to co-parent after your divorce is finalized!

Note: This information is general in nature and should not be construed as legal/financial/tax/or mental health advice. You should work with your attorney, financial, mental health or tax professional to determine what will work best for your situation.